Here’s how privileges influence our possibilities. — “If you can dream it, you can do it” I remembered the cliché line from Walt Disney when I contemplated how far people can influence their own lives. In fairy tales always everything turns out just right. The good characters get a happy ending and the villains face their just…

I asked 20+ women around me, and these were the astonishing answers. — According to science, only around 18%-50% of women can orgasm through penetration only. And the pleasure gap is still enormous. While most women in my bubble agree with the secret sauce to pleasure — stimulate the clit — there’s a lot more diversity around than I initially thought. I asked…

Mine showed all these red flags before he raped me. — Just like every 5th woman in the world, I also got raped. I dated the wrong guy, and I might even say the whole stuff was getting close to a new relationship. Although I only met Kevin three times, we headed towards our first sexual experience. The rape happened in…

Make this 7-step blueprint work for you to become a consistent writer. — Writing consistently isn’t rocked science. It requires following simple steps with passion. It’s simple but not easy. In this article, you’ll receive an action-based framework that will help you write consistently. You’ll read about the exact practices I’ve implemented during my three-year writing journey. All this after a short credibility…

An interview with Ashtanga yoga teacher Laruga Glaser — Laruga arrived with a sense of grace and calm despite the heaviness of the topic we were about to discuss and despite the heat of the Goan sun. When I suggested discussing sexual abuse with her, Laruga agreed without hesitation. She believes that taking self-responsibility and talking about uncomfortable topics…

The lines are blurrier than I thought. — The first definition that pops up in my Google research is more than limited. It goes like this: sex involves „the insertion and thrusting of the male penis inside the female vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both.” It doesn’t only leave out the LGBTQIA+ community but also ignores the…

And how you can accept and enjoy your darker side. — Is it healthy to get excited about power play, handcuffs, and bondage? And what about other darker ideas that even involve physical pain? Many people suppress their sexual desires which aren’t labeled as “normal” in society. They abandon unconventional practices to fit in and deprive themselves of divine pleasures. …

#3. Should I brush my teeth right after going down on them? — Men who go down on their partners make this world a better place. But giving a head also comes with health risks, especially during casual encounters. …

How I finally read more and how you can too. — In 2021 I read 0 books and wondered how people can read 20+ novels in a year while working full-time and also having a life. It seemed unachievable. I even struggled to finish a single book. I barely found the time to read and even though the book I was…