How Can Men Set Healthy Boundaries and Overcome Commitment Fear with Hypnotherapy

An interview with relationship coach and hypnotherapist Flo

Eszter Brhlik

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Photo by Alexandra Sliwa

I met Flo during my travels in Indonesia and we had an instant connection. We talked for hours and agreed to keep in touch once we returned to our “normal” lives — whatever the term normal means.

The interview below is the result of one of our conversations and it stands to support men in setting healthy boundaries and being able to commit emotionally to romantic relationships.

In your experience, why do so many men have a fear of committing to a relationship?

In most cases, it really is the fear of being limited by a partner and losing freedom in exchange for connection and closeness. No one likes to sacrifice an arm for a leg!’ We naturally want and need both. Men who fear commitment usually make the experience that they can’t have both and lose themselves in relationships. So it feels safer to stay single.

How can I avoid losing myself in a relationship?

It’s easy to blame the other person for taking your freedom away. But the truth is: No one can ever limit you! If you are honest with yourself…

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