Mine showed all these red flags before he raped me. — Just like every 5th woman in the world, I also got raped. I dated the wrong guy, and I might even say the whole stuff was getting close to a new relationship. Although I only met Kevin three times, we headed towards our first sexual experience. The rape happened in…

The lines are blurrier than I thought. — The first definition that pops up in my Google research is more than limited. It goes like this: sex involves „the insertion and thrusting of the male penis inside the female vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both.” It doesn’t only leave out the LGBTQIA+ community but also ignores the…

And how you can accept and enjoy your darker side. — Is it healthy to get excited about power play, handcuffs, and bondage? And what about other darker ideas that even involve physical pain? Many people suppress their sexual desires which aren’t labeled as “normal” in society. They abandon unconventional practices to fit in and deprive themselves of divine pleasures. …

#3. Should I brush my teeth right after going down on them? — Men who go down on their partners make this world a better place. But giving a head also comes with health risks, especially during casual encounters. …

How I finally read more and how you can too. — In 2021 I read 0 books and wondered how people can read 20+ novels in a year while working full-time and also having a life. It seemed unachievable. I even struggled to finish a single book. I barely found the time to read and even though the book I was…

A guide for women on why and how to masturbate for more diverse pleasure. — Masturbation gives you access to unconditional pleasure. It boosts your mood, health, and also your sex life. In the long run, self-exploration contributes to higher sexual satisfaction with partners. And it also plays a crucial role in healthy sexual development. Yet, research shows only 1 in 4 women masturbate regularly.

Practical ways to make this work for you. — Have you ever indulged in sexual fantasies you’d never want in real life? According to research, “between 31% and 57% of women have fantasies in which they are forced into sex against their will.” In addition, one of the most common female fantasies is being dominated by powerful men. …

Sometimes this is all you need. — I arrived home from work drained. My body felt heavy and with every minute passing by my soul felt just a little heavier. I still had to clean. And prepare something to eat. When am I going to have time to relax a little bit? Sometimes, one tiny thing can…

Unlearn your harmful habits and practice for a more fulfilling sex life. — Have you ever thought about male masturbation as something beautiful? While society generally accepts male self-pleasure, it is still seen as something men need to do quickly. Unfortunately, some still perceive it as degrading or repulsive, painting men as insatiable beings. Right. But is male masturbation really an activity to…