Hello, I’m Eszter Brhlik. It’s nice to have you here!
If you asked me to describe myself in 5 words, I’d say I’m conscious, balanced, caring, goal-oriented, and adventurous. I’m an ENTJ-A.
Although I studied International Business with Entrepreneurship, Scenario Planning, and Sustainability majors, I find peaceful fulfillment in life as a writer and teacher.
To master my writing skills and find my voice, I’ve crafted more than 100 articles within 8 months. During this time, I had a part-time…
Just like every 5th woman in the world, I also got raped.
I dated the wrong guy, and I might even say the whole stuff was getting close to a new relationship. Although I only met Kevin three times, we headed towards our first sexual experience.
The rape happened in an everyday situation. I walked home with him on that Saturday evening with consent. We even kissed, and I tried to enjoy that something in the beginning.
He started to penetrate me. A few minutes later, though, I felt I wasn’t ready for it. I told him to slow down…
It’s the job of governments and companies to create livable alternatives amidst climate change. You can’t do a lot, but you can be a drop in the ocean.
We can’t stop global warming. We’re past that point. Our planet will burn down right in front of our eyes, creating a lot of suffering.
Unfortunately, I’m not pessimistic; I’m realistic. More people will die of heatwaves (because yes, they already do), extreme weather will unexpectedly destroy homes and lives (it’s already happening), our food will be damaged. We’re screwed.
We’ll have to survive with the consequences.
“I can’t love a God who supports genocide and commands murder. I don’t want to believe in such an evil God.”
“Let me explain.” said the Christian guy I got to know on a long train ride.
He couldn’t explain.
Like most Christian fundamentalists, he also believes The Bible is infallible because it is the word of God. A God we should worship and obey.
In that case, it’s such a shame the divine spoke to humanity through this poorly written violent manual. …
People who experiment with trauma plays are not afraid to enter their deepest fears. They derive pleasure from their long-forgotten pain in the frame of a trauma play.
Sex doesn’t have to be limited to joy; it is also a form of self-expression. Just like artists, these kinksters reveal their damaged souls in the art of sex.
Such plays can include emotional discomfort and suffering.
It can help people heal.
Most people engage in BDSM to have fun.
A fraction of them, though, have experiences with significant trauma or abuse.
Food is the fuel of your body and brain. With your eating habits, you can influence your health, well-being, and productivity. You can also save money and reduce your carbon footprint.
Most people believe eating healthy is expensive, and they have to implement radical changes into their lives to be more sustainable.
I have a flexitarian diet, which means I only occasionally eat meat. I’ve spent around $200 on food per month for more than three years now and continue to look for ways to enhance my health and do less harm to the planet.
Here’s how healthy, cheap, tasty…
Have you ever wondered how many wild sexual fantasies are in our wonderfully diverse world?
The kink list is almost endless. While some non-traditional sexual desires are more common, such as BDSM, roleplaying, or foot fetishism, there are other, lesser-known, awkward kinks.
Still, many people struggle with their rare sexual preferences. They feel ununderstood and weird. I know because I felt that way even though my BDSM cravings are not even that uncommon.
Unconventional sexual practices are natural. There is nothing wrong with kinks until we practice them consensually, without harming others.
Sex doesn’t have to look like the mainstream…
Have you ever felt insecure when it came to sex?
The aching feeling of not being good enough is something most of us experience. Me as well. Our surroundings helped us never forget our imperfect traits or body parts. They highlighted our flaws and made us believe we’re disgusting.
Either it was back when you were only 14, and your crush at school remarked the hair on your leg is disgusting, or someone recently commenting on the shape of your body, such pain is hard to overcome.
You’re not perfect. None of us is. But overcoming your insecurities is an…
Imagine people don’t have a genuine disgust towards human flesh. In this world, cannibalism would be normal, and our society would function differently.
Would we exploit each other the way we do it with plants, animals, and other resources?
The topic is not even too away from reality. Throughout history, people chose to consume each other for various reasons. Still, something prevented us from eating human flesh on a large scale.
Everything started in the 15th century on Guadalupe Island after the discovery of America. When Columbus traveled back to Spain, he told a story about the violent Carib people…
Have you ever met someone who was homophobic, and you didn’t understand why?
I’m from Hungary, a deeply conservative country in Europe, and, unfortunately, stuff like that happens every time I visit my hometown.
I experienced many things, from innocent homophobic jokes to hearing about parents who wouldn’t accept their homosexual children. We bullied gay and lesbian kids at school.
Above all, now my country introduced a law against the LBGTQ+ community and packed it in the disguise of an anti pedophilia order. They literally institutionalized homophobia.
Homophobic people all have their conscious or unconscious reasons why they feel the…