Mine showed all these red flags before he raped me. — Just like every 5th woman in the world, I also got raped. I dated the wrong guy, and I might even say the whole stuff was getting close to a new relationship. Although I only met Kevin three times, we headed towards our first sexual experience. The rape happened in…

#2 Move your body outside — Have you ever spent too much time indoors and felt something was off? Most people work inside. They spend most of their time staring at a screen. And even after a hard day, they opt for watching a series instead of going for a walk. Sometimes, I’m one of those…

It depends… — I used to have rape fantasies. Then I got raped. So no wonder that as my past fantasy became torture I welcomed the idea of kink modification. Yet, I still have and enjoy sexist fantasies. The premise of kink modification is that you can train your mind to be aroused…

Penetration really really really shouldn’t hurt. — “It was awesome,” I told a friend after I lost my virginity. Little did I know about toe-curling pleasure back then. I got high on the feeling of having sex, even though the experience wasn’t that enjoyable, to put it lightly. As I read more about healthy sexuality and gained…

Yet there are countless issues in the industry. — By now you likely heard about the fact that children could rewatch their rape on PornHub and the company even earned ad revenue from it. How lovely. Pornhub did a great job at creating a safe space for sexual abuse for years. In late 2020, however, New York Times columnist…

And have ecstatic sex with the help of the book “Tantric Orgasm for Women”. — Have you ever wondered how you could have a more satisfying, beautiful, and ecstatic love life? How to feel deeper, enjoy longer and worship the sexual journey with an open mind? Many people desire to go beyond conventional sex in the pursuit of deeper fulfillment but only a few are…

Sometimes letting go of stuff brings more joy and fulfillment. — We’re always overstimulated. Owning less and appreciating what you have brings real contentment and happiness. I refuse to buy these things to feel better, to save money so that I can spend it on things that really matter: 1. Spotify & Netflix subscription I used to have both Spotify Premium and Netflix. And while I…

This might help you prevent highly uncomfortable situations. — I was happy when I swiped right. In the pictures, Kevin was a sympathetic, attractive guy who, just like me, was looking for something more serious. We started dating, then things quickly escalated. I found myself naked in his bed when I changed my mind. And although I withdrew my…

“I never talk about these intimate topics with friends, y’know” — Most women I talk to don’t have in-depth conversations about sexuality with their friends. They feel the need to share but don’t know how to bring up the topic. Some feel unsafe or think that so much time has passed that telling a dark story would be weird. …