Published in Sexography·PinnedMember-onlyWhy is Female Orgasm Harder to Reach With a Man Involved?I asked 20+ women around me, and these were the astonishing answers. — According to science, only around 18%-50% of women can orgasm through penetration only. And the pleasure gap is still enormous. While most women in my bubble agree with the secret sauce to pleasure — stimulate the clit — there’s a lot more diversity around than I initially thought. I asked…Sexuality9 min readSexuality9 min read
Published in Sexography·PinnedMember-only5 Things Every Woman Needs To Know About Her Potential RapistMine showed all these red flags before he raped me. — Just like every 5th woman in the world, I also got raped. I dated the wrong guy, and I might even say the whole stuff was getting close to a new relationship. Although I only met Kevin three times, we headed towards our first sexual experience. The rape happened in…Rape6 min readRape6 min read
Published in The Startup·PinnedMember-only3 Reasons Why You Should Stop Obsessing About Financial FreedomYou’re already richer than 99% of the people who’ve ever lived before. — I hope one day you realize the glittering story of financial freedom was a lie. It makes 99% of us work our hearts out to maintain the unnecessary lifestyle of the richest 1%. Yet it’s no wonder you strive for wealth. Capitalism made us all believe we need to produce…Life Lessons5 min readLife Lessons5 min read
Published in Sexography·2 days agoMember-onlyHow to Talk About Sexuality with Your Friends to Boost Your Love Life“I never talk about these intimate topics with friends, y’know” — Most women I talk to don’t have in-depth conversations about sexuality with their friends. They feel the need to share but don’t know how to bring up the topic. Some feel unsafe or think that so much time has passed that telling a dark story would be weird. Others fear…Sex6 min readSex6 min read
Published in Books Are Our Superpower·4 days agoMember-onlyThese 3 Powerful Ideas Can Rewire Your Brain About the Divine FeminineSally Kempton’s book “Awakening Shakti changed the way I think about feminism, sacred sexuality, and spirituality. — In some cultures, women are divine. Female sexuality, even in a spiritual context, isn’t something you should be afraid or ashamed of. It is something you can explore, cherish, and worship. Conscious inner work is encouraged, and women are respected powerful creatures. Weird, isn’t it?Books5 min readBooks5 min read
Published in The Startup·Mar 15Member-onlyReasons Why You Should Stop Obsessing About External (Writing) SuccessIf you want to live a life that truly feels good from the inside. — I radically redefined my definition of success. It goes like this; success means I enjoy the course of everyday life. I did this because I realized my attachment to external success prevented me from enjoying the process, growing better, and leading a healthy life. It also boosted impatience. As controversial…Writing4 min readWriting4 min read
Published in Sexography·Mar 14Member-onlyHow You Can Overcome Sexual Shame and Live To Your Full PotentialConversation with Tóth Eszter, activist and sex-positive creator from Hungary. — “To accept and embrace my desires is to turn with the same love to the woman I am.” I read on the Instagram page of Tóth Eszter and felt a sense of deep curiosity. Is it even possible to do that? Where does sexual shame come from? And how can…Sexuality6 min readSexuality6 min read
Published in Mind Cafe·Mar 4Member-only6 Things I’ve Learned in India While Traveling Alone and Practicing YogaLessons that have the potential to transform our lives. — For the first time in my life, I’m not rushing to reach a goal. In the last three weeks, I’ve spent my days in Goa with daily Ashtanga yoga, meditation, and learning about spirituality. …Self7 min readSelf7 min read
Jan 24Member-onlyHow Hungary’s Systemic Corruption Made Me Learn a Lesson for LifeAnd leave my home country for good. — My mom was crying. She’d just received a call from the town’s best elementary school, where I was supposed to go in September. The school accepted another kid instead of me because the family had more connections. …Hungary5 min readHungary5 min read
Published in Sexography·Jan 23Member-only4 Menstruation Facts I Wish I Had Known When I Was 13But figured out in my 20s. — When my mom told me I’d be menstruating once a month until I was middle-aged, I thought it was a joke. A terrible joke. And besides bleeding for 4–5 days every month, women also have to navigate through the countless misconceptions regarding menstruation we were told in our teenage years. …Menstruation4 min readMenstruation4 min read
